I saw the spanish(Italian?)movie a long time ago and forgot the name. A young soldier was stationed in a village and met an old maid(General's daugher?)who was ugly, mentally crazy and physically ill. The old maid started pursuing him madly. He rejected her first and later accepted her love. After she died, he missed her. In real life, my handsome German friend is being pursued and stalked by an American old maid. I would like to show him the movie just to tease him. Does anyone know the name of the movie?